Sunday, December 24, 2006

Professional Photos

We had professional photos taken earlier this month and here is a sample of them!
Emily was such a hoot She played to the camera and we all ended up laughing including the photographer!
Hope you enjoy these as much as we do!



Brother and Sister!



If I hold on really Tight will he protect me?



Are you really?




Big Mooches! I love my brother!



Are we done yet?



Yeap you can go! Now there is one!

Merry Christmas














Merry Christmas from The Kelsall's to you all!


This is our Christmas photo and we will update you all soon!
We hope you all have a safe and happy holiday season.

And a fantastic 2007!
Love Ruth, Keith, Aiden and Emily

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Another busy week!

Well it is Saturday Afternoon and another busy week!
Keith and I have both been sick and that just sucks!
I went through to Te Anau for work and visit some amazing OSCAR programmes.
I live in a truly amazing country for which I am thankful!
I love New Zealand!
It was the first day of Summer yesterday yet I drove in hail and heavy rain and freezing conditions! AMAZING!
Emily missed me hugely and was very glad to see me home!
Aiden and Emily have been extremely tired this week and have had trouble sleeping so we are off to Spotlight (which is like Michael's!) To get new curtains! see if that will help for Emily!

It is amazing to watch her and Aiden grow! Emily went into a bookstore with me and saw a globe pointed to Africa and said there is Africa Mummy! talk about blowing my mind!
So luckily Santa bought her a world atlas book this Christmas eh!:)
Well I need to get organised as Keith and I are meant to be going out for dinner! YEAH! Not Only because I feel sick! Nasty head cold! Nothing too major!
Hugs to you all I will pop up some more photos soon!
Ruth

Friday, November 24, 2006

photos from the last week!


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Icebergs and Thanksgiving

Well the past few weeks have been hectic!
The sound of helicopters has filled the air with the constant buzzing to and from the icebergs which are currently sitting off our coast line! And like all good mothers we decided one day last week to go and investigate after driving down to the tip of the peninsula I was incredibly anxious as the road is really narrow and winding! We arrived at Taiaroa Heads. No Icebergs apparently you had to be elevated! but the sight of albatross swooping and soaring was magnificent! Did I tell you it was blowing so hard that the wind could push you over almost! But watching the playfulness of these magnificent birds and all for free!
Well we headed home with two tired children!

Then this week Emily and I hit the road to our friends in Central Otago so I could work and Emily play with her friend Mae! They had a fantastic time! Work was okay! But watching these little girls play was just glorious!

On Saturday we had a lot to be thankful for! Our Friends Jacqueline and Lina arrived home from China! Lina is such a sweetie! and Jacqueline is just the essence of motherhood!
Other friends sold there house and Keith has moved into an office! I am not sure whether or not to be thankful for that!
But I am thankful for all my friends and family that support us! all my cyber pals around the world! and for my home with in its walls is my precious children and husband! I was hoping like most that Alice would be home but not to be! So another holiday passes and we wait! But like most things that we wait for! It is sweeter and more rewarding! so I hope the rumour queen is correct and that September is being matched! and that leaves only 3 more months worth! oh that means March referral! that would be sweet!
Hugs To you all!
I will post some photos soon!
Love Ruth

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Heard from China

Just heard from our friends in China and things are going as well as can be expected! One of the biggest things we all dream of is the perfect handover and a compliant baby but the reality is these are signs of a non attachd baby and one that sobs and cries is actually what we all should be wishing for!
So I wish for the worst and hope that it does come true! We want our children the chance to grieve and show some signs of problems so that when they are ready they will bond and attach to us in a healthy way!
Take care Jacqueline and Lina, and the rest of the group!
Love US!

I have learnt some new tricks!

It isn't even halloween and I have learn't some new tricks! YEAH! I am very proud of myself! I can now make really cool slide shows! And I hope you enjoy all the new photos! The waiting for Alice has hit us really strongly this month and know that we probably won't hear for about 6 months! so I have spent an hour on my Blog while Emily annoys me! I hope you all enjoy the changes!
Hugs Ruth

Photos from the last couple of months!


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Monday, November 06, 2006

Waiting waiting text me!

Well it is now 9:13 pm in New Zealand and we haven't heard anything from Jacqueline! Hope hand over has gone well for the 3 NZ families recieving their daughters today! Emily can't wait to meet Lina and Eva! Neither can Aiden, Keith and of course me!
Just to think it will be us in their shoes soon!
Hugs to the new families
Ruth

Sunday, November 05, 2006

WAITING!

Well the waiting continues and family life is getting busier and busier!
Aiden has taken to surfing and has lessons each week! That is great since the beach is just down the hill!
Also he has settled into John McGlashan well and loves the school and the challenges that brings!
We have had an amazing year with loads of challenges!
Emily loves her daily routine of school and then home for a nap and then it is chitter chatter non stop so fantastic! Also we have had a busy time with visitors and adventurers!
Emily has bben to Hi 5 and now the Dorothy the Dinosaur and now we have tickets for Barney! She just loves it!
I will up load photos shortly so you can see the changes in our princess!
Aroha Nui!
Ruth

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

July 13 documents have been referred!

Well we have been very quiet It is now August but we haven't had referrals yet in New Zealand yet but we are expecting referrals for one of two groups who had their paperwork in China in July!
So they will hopefully have both sets of referrals before the end of the month!
We look like we will not meet Alice until March April 2007 as the wait for all families has extended out!
It is hard waiting but we have two wonderful children at home and that helps immensley.

Aiden has really enjoyed his first 6 months at a college and really is into theatre sports and hockey this year is looking at how to fit in Piano lessons on top of all he does!

Emily is at Montessori 5 days a week!
And says things like "I love my Alice!" "Alice is in China waiting for us mummy!" "when I go on a plane I will get Alice?"
So currently Alice is involved in all our talk!
Emily finds it hard to understand why Alice won't be at her birthday party!
Yes Emily is about to celebrate her 3rd birthday! So that is all fun filled!

We had a fantastic time in WEllington at the Chinese Embassey with her friends Zara and Marlese!
And meeting up with Sophie, Meillyn and our friends and kids in Wellington too!
Well I need to pop Emily to bed!
Take care
Love Ruth

Saturday, January 14, 2006

100 Good Wishes Quilt

We are making a quilt for both Emily and Alice. It is based on a tradition which exists in the northern part of China to make a Bai Jia Bei (a.k.a. 100 Good Wishes Quilt). The family invites friends and family to contribute a square of cloth along with their wish for the baby. Part of the square goes into the quilt for the baby, and the other part goes into a scrapbook with the wish for the child. It is said that the quilt contains the luck, energy, and good wishes from everyone who contributed a piece of fabric.

The adoption community has grasped this idea and we often do a quilt square swap with various of the Yahoo groups we are part of. Along with the fabric that is used for the quilt you send a "wish" on a card with your name and address and a small piece of the material. These cards can be put in a scrapbook and when the child is older they can enjoy looking through their Wishes book and match the materials to the quilt and where the fabric came from. Many of us will collect squares and wishes from our family and friends as well. This tradition shows our children just how much they were loved before they even arrived home, and becomes a special heirloom for them.

So if you would like to participate then you can send a piece of fabric which is either- 7”x 7” rotary cut square. If you are cutting the fabric by hand, please cut 8”x8” squares to allow for variance in cutting.



Some tips:
· Choose a 100% cotton fabric that you like.
· The wishes themselves can be just a heartfelt thought you dream up, a famous or not-so-famous quote, song lyrics, scripture passages, a family recipe, …you name it as long as you feel it will be uplifting to the child and family.
· It should include a small snippet of the fabric you used for the squares. That way, our children will be able to match it up to the quilt when they are older.
· There is a lot of personal choice in how to present the wishes. Theoretically, put the wish and a 1x1 square of the included fabric on a 3x5 or 5x7 card. It can be as plain or as fancy as you want to make it. You can hand write it, computer print it, use scrapbook supplies, scan the fabric and color print it on the paper, use cardstock, use stickers, use stamps.... it is completely up to you.

For some ideas of completed quilts, go to